ok this is some weird article i was given to read for gp. but it made alot of sense. it's witten by a lady who wonders why it's so good to have a wife.
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here's just an exerpt:
Why do i want a wife?

i wld like to go back to sch so that i can be economically independent, support myself, and if need be, support those dependent on me. i want a wife who will work and send me to sch. and while i am gg to sch i want a wife to take care of my children. i want a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. i want a wife to keep track of mine, too. i want a wife to make sure my children eat properly, and are kept clean. i want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. i want a wife who is a good nurturant attendant to my children, who arranges for their schooling, makes sure they have an adequate social life with theier peers, take them to the park, the zoo. i want a wife who take care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, i cannot miss classes at school. my wife must arragne to lose time at work and not lose the job. it may mean a small cut in my wife's income from time to time, but i guess i can tolerate that. needless to say, my wife will arrange and pay for the care of the children while my wfe is working.

i want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. i want a wife who will keep my house clean. a wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. i want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper places so that i can find what i need the minute i need it. i want a wife who cook the meals, who is a good cook. i want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while i do my studying. i want a wife who will care for me when i am sick and sympathise with my pain and loss of time from school. i want a wife who will not bother me with rambling complaints about a wife's duty. but i want a wife who will listen to me when i feel the need to explain a rather difficul point i have come across in my course of studies. and i want a wife who will type my papers for me when i have written them.

i want a wife who will take care of the details of my social life. when my wife and i are invited out by my friends, i want a wife who will take care of the babysitting arrangements. when i meet people at school that i like and wan to entertain, i want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when i talk about thins that interest me and my friends. i want a wife who will have arranged tht the childrena re fed and ready for bed when my guests arrive so that the children do not bother us. i want a wife who will take care of the needs of my guest so that they feel comfortable, that they are offered a second helping of food, that their wine-glasses are replenished when necessary, that their coffee is served to them as they like it. and i want a wife who knows that sometimes i need a night out by myself.

.............. and it ends of with, My goodness, who wouldn't want a wife?

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so much pressure. LOL
my husband better share the responsibilities. or else...